I am often asked:
- so she does not sleep alone? / In her room?
- then never spent a night away from her?
- she did well all day. Now that you have reached it starts whining and crying and throwing things to the ground.
Intuitively I always knew what it was. But this article fantastic deals with the theme on the key points.
Babies need of parents. Forcing an unwanted separation is not natural for the baby and can become harmful.
I tried always to include my daughter in all my activities:
- the first month, we were for STIs present a poster at an international conference
- at 6 months we traveled to India for me to present a communication in an international conference (I confess that here was widely criticized for more because there was an H1N1 outbreak in the city where we were going at the time )
- to 8 months we went to pick olives, did well to play and eat
- at 15 months went to Figueira da Foz for me to attend an international conference
- 18 months went to Russia to I participate in another international conference
- at 5 months and 17 months we spent two days at the Festival Wanderings in S. Peter South (The first time we stayed at a friend's house and we camped in the second).
- from 9 months to take walks with her bicycle (a chair): go to the forest to the waterfront, the beach, the garden ...
- on a week we go to restaurants with her (but I confess it's a totally different experience to go childless ;))))
It is not difficult for me to be with my daughter. We are more difficult to be separated.
I have to thank my husband, parents, in-laws and sponsors for supporting me in these my decisions (although they go with her, I always take a team of support).
We try to keep things simple, with minimal work (and I confess that the fact that she now be nursing and unfurled huge help), but out of risky activities, you can do almost anything with it.
Our biggest obstacle is our inability to think we are capable ...
Think about it.
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