The moyinha loves playing with other babies and children: if smaller, likes to show them things and if they are larger, of imitating them. However, we have seen a facet more possessive of her, which is perfectly natural as it is to grow and realize that you have control over what's around you.
Although most of the meetings to be peaceful, often watch the conflict between her and other children for possession of a toy. I try not to intervene, but when push comes to scale (in noise or action), I try to intervene and ask him to return the toy that is not hers or borrow what it is. But I find myself scolding her and remove her things from the hands. Now, if we analyze the situation, this is not the solution.
Imagine you are on a park bench reading a book or writing an SMS on your TMV. Have a friend / family member sitting beside you. And suddenly, a stranger arrives who sits on the bench and you takes your phone book or from the hands to use it. What would you do? And if, on top of that, your relative / friend also tells you: So? You have to share! I loved reading this
article on the subject because it exposes solutions that respect both children that can easily be taken: eg, I will always walk with two toys instead of one: P
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